"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ex keeps contacting

fanren

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well i broke up with my gf last week and she still calls and emails me. saying i think about you and miss you blah. well i do too but i dont know if i should say it to her. does she want me back or is she just venting?

i know this sounds awful but i want to keep her as a back up, so whats the most tactful way of going about on this?

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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fanren

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forgot to mention that i dont see a point in talking to her unless we are getting back together. so how can i gauge that?
 

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You want to keep her as a backup but you dont see a point in talking to her unless you are getting back together? If you get back together, how can she be a backup?
 

fanren

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nm i faked myself out

girls are still mind boggling to me
 

penkitten

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contact means shes not done.

doesnt nessecarily mean she wants you back, might mean shes bitter and wants you to pay.

never the less, shes not done .

its up to you if you want to stop contact, and if so make it happen.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bradshaw

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Sometimes when you break up with a girl, she will try to get back together with you so that SHE can end it a few days later. They do this so that they feel like they were the ones who dumped you. This doesn't happen a lot, but I have seen it happen more than once.
 
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