"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ex just starting to see another guy, and likes him (time sensitive)
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Iceberg said:Do you seriously care? It's facebook. Delete her, keep her, who cares? This has no long term impact on your life whatsoever.
Sending a last message accomplishes nothing. It won't make her more attracted to you. It won't change her feelings. It won't make you more of a man.
Your only path is to move forward as a man. That's it.
Let go of this petty crap and fix your life. That's the big thing. Fixing your life. Not Facebook, not a "last message". You're asking about petty sh*t like this when you should be looking for the local gym. Or learning hobbies. Or doing ANYTHING positive.
Ok, thanks, Ill be doing that. Only thing is today (Friday) She's going to meet her for the second time. This is getting me anxious and down for obvious reasons. I'm puzzled how can they be so infatuated towards each other when they really don't know anything about each other and haver onluy met a week ago. The guy seems very clingy and the kind of sentimental dude who after seeing her just once is all over her, telling her beatiful, we're meant for each other etc. I know, I will erase her fb on monday, just curious about how things go this time. He calls her "beauty" and spills all his emotions on her during first week. He also seems to be trying too hard. I know what you must be thinking...Why do I even care?... Well, just hoping she somehow loses interest for spilling his guts out so early without even really knowuing her. And also regret a bit not having taken action while I had the chance and this day came.
This guy seems clingy and needy (again, I know "stop worrying about the other guy"). You think if he starts so emotional, cheesy and sh!t she might start to wonder if she took the right decision and think about me again? There hasn't been a challenge at all here he spilled out his emotion since first meeting her (He's into writing, art and that kinfd of stuff) and constantly tries to coe off as smart and witty. My ex isn't that dumb I think and might catch on it. I was very different.
I'm thinking maybe I could have done better this week and prevented this to happen. Anyway, I'm calling it quits whatever the outcome and am prepared for the worse. Except if she contacts me and apologises or something which I highly doubt I would consider it. Well that's all for now, I guess I'm depressed because of the meaning and consequences this day will bring.
Any thoughts other than just forget about her that I already know and will eventually do?
Duracell_Bunny said:THIS IS OVER.
^ All of that sh1t is irrelevant.
I will be honest, if you knowingly had a drinking a problem and if the stress with intensive law studiying was so bad, you should not have gone into the relationship and she did the right thing - you were lucky that she backed off and came back when you had sorted yourself out, but then one night the drink got the better of you and you made a fool of yourself. This sealed your access to her pu$$y for good.
Yup.
Yes you should! - You should be cutting off every connection you have with her.
If you already know her password, log in to her account, change the password to some random letter you will never remember. Log off (she can always reset her password by email) - do it now!
Trying to see what it going on with her just isn't worth it. You will feel worse for it like this:
Imagine what that will change to in a couple of weeks!
You consider yourself to be good looking - I'm jealous. Most of us on this forum don't have this blessing and work hard to be desirable. Imagine how awesome it WILL be when you change your body as well.
The only time you are to contact her is, to send photo of you on the beach with a ripped body and a HB8-10 under your arm sticking two fingers up at the camera.
This will happen more quickly than you are thinking right now. I have been through it and honestly now how it feels. Hitting the gym and changing your lifestyle is the way forward. I have never gone back and cannot see me every doing so.
When the momentum gets rolling, the change of lifestyle becomes a habit. I very rarely drink now as I'm get to obsessed thinking it will affect my training.
It is going to be hard, but it also gets easier then becomes an enjoyable uplifting way of life. Just keep at it, I promise you!
Just take a look at this post by me. I was a hairy monster with beer belly, look how much you will change in just a few months IF you stick at it.
I love not drinking - my confidence is sky high as I have got used to going out at night soba, I have the freedom of driving on a night out, I save a huge sum of money, my body is in shape and it feels amazing.
This is where I came from, and was truly my turning point: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=174038 if you reed through the whole thread you will see how it goes through how I caught her cheating just a days after posting the thread, sink in the advice I was given. I was such a passive weak man back then.
Take the advice from other members on here, read through the DJ bible and DJ tips section. It does work!
Don't just sit there and do nothing but read the bible, go out and action it. Do it now... go on with you :woo:
Hi Duracell. I've read the DJ bible many years ago and have a good notion about it. BTW, I saw your pics of before and after and right now I look exactly like you did on the before pic. I'm also as tall as you (5'9). What was the time margin between both pics? And what's up with the shaving are you really that into it? do you think it helps? I mean if youre not into bodybuilding contests and stuff. I am not fat, my problem is just beer belly and maybe a sort of swelled face. Also, what's HIIT mean?
cheers.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how long does she need to wait to fall for a guy for it to be okay with you?
Imagine her and this guy talking and she tells him "I really like you, but I can't fall for you yet because this other guy I was seeing will think I'm falling for someone else too soon and it will hurt him"
Imagine her and this guy talking and she tells him "I really like you, but I can't fall for you yet because this other guy I was seeing will think I'm falling for someone else too soon and it will hurt him"
Aaron B said:how long does she need to wait to fall for a guy for it to be okay with you?
Imagine her and this guy talking and she tells him "I really like you, but I can't fall for you yet because this other guy I was seeing will think I'm falling for someone else too soon and it will hurt him"
Well Ican't imagine that I get your point. Anyways she must have been fukkkd by now so the worse is over.. If you read all thethread you might understand this. My deadline is monday cause today I got drunk again. Thanks all....I'll do my best to get a better girl and get the most out of me...
Iceberg said:Do you seriously care? It's facebook. Delete her, keep her, who cares? This has no long term impact on your life whatsoever.
Sending a last message accomplishes nothing. It won't make her more attracted to you. It won't change her feelings. It won't make you more of a man.
Your only path is to move forward as a man. That's it.
Let go of this petty crap and fix your life. That's the big thing. Fixing your life. Not Facebook, not a "last message". You're asking about petty sh*t like this when you should be looking for the local gym. Or learning hobbies. Or doing ANYTHING positive.
I appreciate your comments IceI've seen some posts of you were you really destroy AFC's....I guess I look like one now but you noticed in reaity I am not. Jusst a bad month that's it.