"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex is being weird

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The other day i logged into my myspace to find a message in my inbox from my ex saying:

I'd prefer if you didnt tell people that you knew me. It ruins my reputation, thanks:) oh and by the way.. I believe your REAL age is 20 not 18, even if you do act 2 yrs old most the time. Or even if you do tell people your 16 haha saaaaad. Catcha round kido ;)

this was completely out of the blue, we havnt spoken for almost 2 months, ive never told any1 i was 16 or 18, my actual age is 19 and i posted this here bcoz she is a high school student...

& btw shes had another bf for about a month
so anyways wots the point of this ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She seems insecure + wants an ego boost (either you don't respond and she showed you (lol), or you do and she provoked a response (eg she views it as you're still attached)

I would just tell her that she's immature (just because I hate girls like that) or not respond at all.
 
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The point is she wants you to angrily respond back as in her warped mind if you respond back angrily or just respond at all that means you are not over her and she then gets her ego boost and can walk away all happy.

So don't respond to her at all.

Don't even try and scold her telling her she is being immature as she in her female mind will interpret that as you caring about her.

Yeah I know that doesn't make sense but thats how the female mind works.
 
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ahaha yeah thought so
& nah i never was planning to respond
i dumpd her 5 months ago so she can hav a HI5 for trying :p
 
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This should be your one and ONLY reply: Hahahahahahaha

Girls HATE it when you laugh at them or laugh when they really are trying to piss you off. I did this with my ex and it pissed her off sooo much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, thats actually a great response.

it's so true chicks do hate that completely.

Thats great advice lol
 
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all you youngsters, always pay close attention to the sage advice of KontrollerX.....wise way beyond his years. He speaks from two places, knowledge from being curious about the world and direct experience.
 
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