"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex is being weird

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The other day i logged into my myspace to find a message in my inbox from my ex saying:

I'd prefer if you didnt tell people that you knew me. It ruins my reputation, thanks:) oh and by the way.. I believe your REAL age is 20 not 18, even if you do act 2 yrs old most the time. Or even if you do tell people your 16 haha saaaaad. Catcha round kido ;)

this was completely out of the blue, we havnt spoken for almost 2 months, ive never told any1 i was 16 or 18, my actual age is 19 and i posted this here bcoz she is a high school student...

& btw shes had another bf for about a month
so anyways wots the point of this ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She seems insecure + wants an ego boost (either you don't respond and she showed you (lol), or you do and she provoked a response (eg she views it as you're still attached)

I would just tell her that she's immature (just because I hate girls like that) or not respond at all.
 
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The point is she wants you to angrily respond back as in her warped mind if you respond back angrily or just respond at all that means you are not over her and she then gets her ego boost and can walk away all happy.

So don't respond to her at all.

Don't even try and scold her telling her she is being immature as she in her female mind will interpret that as you caring about her.

Yeah I know that doesn't make sense but thats how the female mind works.
 
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ahaha yeah thought so
& nah i never was planning to respond
i dumpd her 5 months ago so she can hav a HI5 for trying :p
 
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This should be your one and ONLY reply: Hahahahahahaha

Girls HATE it when you laugh at them or laugh when they really are trying to piss you off. I did this with my ex and it pissed her off sooo much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wow, thats actually a great response.

it's so true chicks do hate that completely.

Thats great advice lol
 
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all you youngsters, always pay close attention to the sage advice of KontrollerX.....wise way beyond his years. He speaks from two places, knowledge from being curious about the world and direct experience.
 
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