"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex is being weird

badrep

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The other day i logged into my myspace to find a message in my inbox from my ex saying:

I'd prefer if you didnt tell people that you knew me. It ruins my reputation, thanks:) oh and by the way.. I believe your REAL age is 20 not 18, even if you do act 2 yrs old most the time. Or even if you do tell people your 16 haha saaaaad. Catcha round kido ;)

this was completely out of the blue, we havnt spoken for almost 2 months, ive never told any1 i was 16 or 18, my actual age is 19 and i posted this here bcoz she is a high school student...

& btw shes had another bf for about a month
so anyways wots the point of this ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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intrextrovert

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She seems insecure + wants an ego boost (either you don't respond and she showed you (lol), or you do and she provoked a response (eg she views it as you're still attached)

I would just tell her that she's immature (just because I hate girls like that) or not respond at all.
 

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The point is she wants you to angrily respond back as in her warped mind if you respond back angrily or just respond at all that means you are not over her and she then gets her ego boost and can walk away all happy.

So don't respond to her at all.

Don't even try and scold her telling her she is being immature as she in her female mind will interpret that as you caring about her.

Yeah I know that doesn't make sense but thats how the female mind works.
 

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ahaha yeah thought so
& nah i never was planning to respond
i dumpd her 5 months ago so she can hav a HI5 for trying :p
 

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This should be your one and ONLY reply: Hahahahahahaha

Girls HATE it when you laugh at them or laugh when they really are trying to piss you off. I did this with my ex and it pissed her off sooo much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Analyzeit

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Wow, thats actually a great response.

it's so true chicks do hate that completely.

Thats great advice lol
 

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all you youngsters, always pay close attention to the sage advice of KontrollerX.....wise way beyond his years. He speaks from two places, knowledge from being curious about the world and direct experience.
 
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