"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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now i have been on a break for the last two weeks. all the while she has been trying to get me back. i played kind of aloof and had my spring break. we had sex like 3 times sat sun mon. then on tues she wasnt really taking the initiative like she did the last week. so i did the same. i called her on tuesday and wednesday i didnt contact her at all. few texts here and there but definitely not bf gf texting. then on sat she text me and everything seemed fine. sunday comes around and i text her in the morning and i decided to text her something nice like i miss u or something i dont remember. then she goes in this whole spiel of we cant get back together and blah blah blah cuz i made her feel bad during the week. "like i was hiding something". i guess she had a talk with one of her retarded friends and came up with this. what do you guys think? what should i do now? she says she still loves me but it wont work right now. she's like the number one game player in the world so how do i respond in a dj manner? and what do you think is going on in that head of hers?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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CARDINAL RULE OF WOMEN: Never listen to what they say, always watch what they do. It sounds like bull**** to me. It's the kind of things chicks do when their interest bottoms out or another guy comes into the picture. If she's so willing to sabotage your relationship, it can only be that she doesn't want you anymore. My ex did the same thing with me awhile ago, tried to pull me close just to kick me in the balls again! Be very wary.

A friend of mine recently received a text from his girlfriends' best friend asking him to come over and f*ck her. He said "No, I'm dating someone." The next day his loving gf texts him "F*ck you I didn't know you were just dating someone". Dumped his a$$. They set him up, hook line sinker.

Your story resonates at the same frequency as my buddies situation, you dig?

No more "I miss you" stuff, go to Zero Radio Contact. Go meet other chicks, or just forget about women and go further yourself. The faster you do, the faster you'll shake that "Guy Who Just Got Dumped" Chick Repellant.
 

Badmannaz

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yea like phoenix said dont listen to what she says women dont communicate like that....

basically if you want the ball back in her court stop talking to her...treat her like she treats you....the number one power guys have over women is our attention...if you dont show her any its equivalent to a girl not giving you pVssy...if you want her back then let her go if she comes running back asking for a relationship it was meant to happen if she doesn't then it wasn't
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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