now i have been on a break for the last two weeks. all the while she has been trying to get me back. i played kind of aloof and had my spring break. we had sex like 3 times sat sun mon. then on tues she wasnt really taking the initiative like she did the last week. so i did the same. i called her on tuesday and wednesday i didnt contact her at all. few texts here and there but definitely not bf gf texting. then on sat she text me and everything seemed fine. sunday comes around and i text her in the morning and i decided to text her something nice like i miss u or something i dont remember. then she goes in this whole spiel of we cant get back together and blah blah blah cuz i made her feel bad during the week. "like i was hiding something". i guess she had a talk with one of her retarded friends and came up with this. what do you guys think? what should i do now? she says she still loves me but it wont work right now. she's like the number one game player in the world so how do i respond in a dj manner? and what do you think is going on in that head of hers?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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