"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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now i have been on a break for the last two weeks. all the while she has been trying to get me back. i played kind of aloof and had my spring break. we had sex like 3 times sat sun mon. then on tues she wasnt really taking the initiative like she did the last week. so i did the same. i called her on tuesday and wednesday i didnt contact her at all. few texts here and there but definitely not bf gf texting. then on sat she text me and everything seemed fine. sunday comes around and i text her in the morning and i decided to text her something nice like i miss u or something i dont remember. then she goes in this whole spiel of we cant get back together and blah blah blah cuz i made her feel bad during the week. "like i was hiding something". i guess she had a talk with one of her retarded friends and came up with this. what do you guys think? what should i do now? she says she still loves me but it wont work right now. she's like the number one game player in the world so how do i respond in a dj manner? and what do you think is going on in that head of hers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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CARDINAL RULE OF WOMEN: Never listen to what they say, always watch what they do. It sounds like bull**** to me. It's the kind of things chicks do when their interest bottoms out or another guy comes into the picture. If she's so willing to sabotage your relationship, it can only be that she doesn't want you anymore. My ex did the same thing with me awhile ago, tried to pull me close just to kick me in the balls again! Be very wary.

A friend of mine recently received a text from his girlfriends' best friend asking him to come over and f*ck her. He said "No, I'm dating someone." The next day his loving gf texts him "F*ck you I didn't know you were just dating someone". Dumped his a$$. They set him up, hook line sinker.

Your story resonates at the same frequency as my buddies situation, you dig?

No more "I miss you" stuff, go to Zero Radio Contact. Go meet other chicks, or just forget about women and go further yourself. The faster you do, the faster you'll shake that "Guy Who Just Got Dumped" Chick Repellant.
 

Badmannaz

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yea like phoenix said dont listen to what she says women dont communicate like that....

basically if you want the ball back in her court stop talking to her...treat her like she treats you....the number one power guys have over women is our attention...if you dont show her any its equivalent to a girl not giving you pVssy...if you want her back then let her go if she comes running back asking for a relationship it was meant to happen if she doesn't then it wasn't
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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