now i have been on a break for the last two weeks. all the while she has been trying to get me back. i played kind of aloof and had my spring break. we had sex like 3 times sat sun mon. then on tues she wasnt really taking the initiative like she did the last week. so i did the same. i called her on tuesday and wednesday i didnt contact her at all. few texts here and there but definitely not bf gf texting. then on sat she text me and everything seemed fine. sunday comes around and i text her in the morning and i decided to text her something nice like i miss u or something i dont remember. then she goes in this whole spiel of we cant get back together and blah blah blah cuz i made her feel bad during the week. "like i was hiding something". i guess she had a talk with one of her retarded friends and came up with this. what do you guys think? what should i do now? she says she still loves me but it wont work right now. she's like the number one game player in the world so how do i respond in a dj manner? and what do you think is going on in that head of hers?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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