"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ex-girlfriend screamed at me....

Jack Hensy

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What did I just read? Can I have my 2 minutes back?
 

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
Look up Lori on Facebook..

Message problem solved
 

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I tried Facebook weeks ago. No luck.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
You are a total dumb*ss. Seriously.
 

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She just texted me!!!!!

This is what she wrote....
"hi jack, very happy you texted me...not so good with deb. She will get over it.
Lets talk and see where this goes..... xoxoxo."

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I just texted her back..."hey lori, glad you reached out, what is your schedule like for next week?"

So good point Espi on being weary of this girl.
 
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LOL.....Yes that is sound advice...
So the timestamps are interesting on your posts. At 230 PM you are saying that you can't find her on facebook, you're desperate to get her number, but then at 309PM, 39 minutes later, she replies to a text from you? You skipped how you got her number. What happened?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm in Florida. We have been texting for two hours since 6:20pm. And baby it's on!!
I am glad I listened to myself and not you guys because I would have blown it!!! See what happens when you take illogical risks?
Not saying don juan forum doesn't have good tips....but logical stuff doesn't work with women. Illogical stuff works everytime.
Women crave EMOTIONS and DRAMA and love being riled up.
 

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Can a Mod close this BS thread? Sometimes I wonder where SS is heading.
 

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This is the guy with enough "experience" to claim the DJ Bible has flaws..... It does, but how would he know.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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