"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex-girlfriend screamed at me....

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What did I just read? Can I have my 2 minutes back?
 

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
Look up Lori on Facebook..

Message problem solved
 

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I tried Facebook weeks ago. No luck.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
You are a total dumb*ss. Seriously.
 

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She just texted me!!!!!

This is what she wrote....
"hi jack, very happy you texted me...not so good with deb. She will get over it.
Lets talk and see where this goes..... xoxoxo."

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I just texted her back..."hey lori, glad you reached out, what is your schedule like for next week?"

So good point Espi on being weary of this girl.
 
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LOL.....Yes that is sound advice...
So the timestamps are interesting on your posts. At 230 PM you are saying that you can't find her on facebook, you're desperate to get her number, but then at 309PM, 39 minutes later, she replies to a text from you? You skipped how you got her number. What happened?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in Florida. We have been texting for two hours since 6:20pm. And baby it's on!!
I am glad I listened to myself and not you guys because I would have blown it!!! See what happens when you take illogical risks?
Not saying don juan forum doesn't have good tips....but logical stuff doesn't work with women. Illogical stuff works everytime.
Women crave EMOTIONS and DRAMA and love being riled up.
 

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Can a Mod close this BS thread? Sometimes I wonder where SS is heading.
 

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This is the guy with enough "experience" to claim the DJ Bible has flaws..... It does, but how would he know.....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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