Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What did I just read? Can I have my 2 minutes back?
 

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
Look up Lori on Facebook..

Message problem solved
 

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I tried Facebook weeks ago. No luck.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was involved with a girl for several months. Then out of the blue we meet her friend at a bar.
Her friend is a HB9 (Lori- 28 years old)while the girlfriend I was seeing is a HB7 (Debra-41 years old).
I am checking out my girlfriend's friend and thinking this girl is hot. We clicked instantly and both knew it. My girlfriend tells me she likes to have a lot of sex.
Anyway, I keep my cool and her friend leaves the bar and hugs me goodbye, then hugs debra goodbye. Then she texts my girlfriend and says...."he is hot wow!" (Referring to me.)
My girlfriend smiled and said to her "he is mine. lol"

I am like damn. I want her friend.

So anyway, we break up a few weeks later(it was mutual) and I cannot stop thinking of Lori. I want to reach out to her because she liked me a lot and I was totally digging her.
So I figured how can I reach out to her? The only person who has her number is my ex.
I grabbed my balls and figured why not? Who cares?....so I texted my exgirlfriend(debra) to ask her to give lori my cell number.
She flips out! I knew she would but I didn't care since break up was mutual and why should she care? She voice messages me and says.....
"Hi, its debra I got your text ...I cannot believe you texted me and asked for lori's number.... that was so out of line, so classless and thank god my gut instincts were right, because you're a player and that was disgusting you even did that! Please have a nice life don't contact me again, I don't want to hear from you again!"

LOL..don't care. I want lori.
You are a total dumb*ss. Seriously.
 

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She just texted me!!!!!

This is what she wrote....
"hi jack, very happy you texted me...not so good with deb. She will get over it.
Lets talk and see where this goes..... xoxoxo."

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I just texted her back..."hey lori, glad you reached out, what is your schedule like for next week?"

So good point Espi on being weary of this girl.
 
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LOL.....Yes that is sound advice...
So the timestamps are interesting on your posts. At 230 PM you are saying that you can't find her on facebook, you're desperate to get her number, but then at 309PM, 39 minutes later, she replies to a text from you? You skipped how you got her number. What happened?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in Florida. We have been texting for two hours since 6:20pm. And baby it's on!!
I am glad I listened to myself and not you guys because I would have blown it!!! See what happens when you take illogical risks?
Not saying don juan forum doesn't have good tips....but logical stuff doesn't work with women. Illogical stuff works everytime.
Women crave EMOTIONS and DRAMA and love being riled up.
 

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Can a Mod close this BS thread? Sometimes I wonder where SS is heading.
 

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This is the guy with enough "experience" to claim the DJ Bible has flaws..... It does, but how would he know.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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