"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex Girl wants back

Ryno121

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So my ex girl want to get back with me.

We have not had a very good 3 years. Its been a lot of her leaving and then me finding some one else. I was ended up going back to her so in the end I was "cheating on her". I don't believe that I ever cheated; she just left all the time.

So She is claiming she wants me back but she is talking to another guy still. She claims she didn't sleep with him but I am not sure I believe it because when she gets upset she said stuff like " i have sex with him several times and it was best I ever had and that I don't even compare".

I am pretty hurt by all this...cause I don't know what to believe.
She I call the guy - cause I know of him.
should I just forget her and file an restraining order on her..cause he is harassing me.
Or give her another shot?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MOTU

Master Don Juan
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I don't give do-overs. I tell women that it's ok for them to get mad at me and tell me they are hurt, etc, but once they (or I) say "it's over", it's over.

Many women use this threat as a kind of brinksmanship and emotional punishment. I simply won't have any of it.

How old are you OP?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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