"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ex Girl wants back

Ryno121

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So my ex girl want to get back with me.

We have not had a very good 3 years. Its been a lot of her leaving and then me finding some one else. I was ended up going back to her so in the end I was "cheating on her". I don't believe that I ever cheated; she just left all the time.

So She is claiming she wants me back but she is talking to another guy still. She claims she didn't sleep with him but I am not sure I believe it because when she gets upset she said stuff like " i have sex with him several times and it was best I ever had and that I don't even compare".

I am pretty hurt by all this...cause I don't know what to believe.
She I call the guy - cause I know of him.
should I just forget her and file an restraining order on her..cause he is harassing me.
Or give her another shot?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MOTU

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I don't give do-overs. I tell women that it's ok for them to get mad at me and tell me they are hurt, etc, but once they (or I) say "it's over", it's over.

Many women use this threat as a kind of brinksmanship and emotional punishment. I simply won't have any of it.

How old are you OP?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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