"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex Girl wants back

Ryno121

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So my ex girl want to get back with me.

We have not had a very good 3 years. Its been a lot of her leaving and then me finding some one else. I was ended up going back to her so in the end I was "cheating on her". I don't believe that I ever cheated; she just left all the time.

So She is claiming she wants me back but she is talking to another guy still. She claims she didn't sleep with him but I am not sure I believe it because when she gets upset she said stuff like " i have sex with him several times and it was best I ever had and that I don't even compare".

I am pretty hurt by all this...cause I don't know what to believe.
She I call the guy - cause I know of him.
should I just forget her and file an restraining order on her..cause he is harassing me.
Or give her another shot?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MOTU

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I don't give do-overs. I tell women that it's ok for them to get mad at me and tell me they are hurt, etc, but once they (or I) say "it's over", it's over.

Many women use this threat as a kind of brinksmanship and emotional punishment. I simply won't have any of it.

How old are you OP?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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