"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ex GF talking trash about me on Facebook, what do I do?

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broke up with my ex almost a week ago (chick from the last thread.) and today I deleted her off FB finally. I felt good about it at first, but one of my friends just asked me when I did to piss her off and I said "what do you mean?". so he showed me her facebook page where she posted

"So glad to be single again, tired of beating treated like garbage." and deleted all pics of me and her.

the thing is she has alot of my family and friends on FB who are gonna see this and think i'm the bad guy here, what do I do about this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In social situations: When in doubt, do nothing.
 
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If she mentions you by both First and Last name, she is defaming your character. It is called "libel" if you do it on public social media like she is doing. You may have heard of it as "slander" which is the same thing but done verbally (like at the water cooler at work by idiot women). You can write her whats called a "Case and Desist" letter advising her to stop, and if she doesn't, you will take legal action. I don't know where you live but in my neck of the woods, Central Illinois, the Judges take this kind of thing very seriously so long as you bring them proof. That is, when someone is defaming someone on social media. Have I sued for this successfully? yes.. Have I got money awarded to me from it? Yes.

If she doesn't mention you by name, not much you can do other than block and ignore. The mentioning by name is a big key.
 
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As long as your family and friends see you as a quality and decent man and you know you are, it's really no problem for you no matter what kind of chit she posts or says about you.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ignore. She wants a reaction out of you. Any reaction and she will get a satisfied feeling of knowing she still has control over you.
 
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Never give her the reaction she wants.

My ex did the same thing she talked so much sh!t about me and I was nothing but nice to her. She tried a lot of things to get my attention and I never caved in, you shouldn't either.
 
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Right now, basically ignore everything LOL. Ignore her stupid ass, ignore what anyone else thinks of you by watching those stupid posts. If any of your "friends" or "family" change opinion over you because some chick says you were being bad, they are not real friends and family in the first place.
 
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Brolee91 said:
broke up with my ex almost a week ago (chick from the last thread.) and today I deleted her off FB finally. I felt good about it at first, but one of my friends just asked me when I did to piss her off and I said "what do you mean?". so he showed me her facebook page where she posted

"So glad to be single again, tired of beating treated like garbage." and deleted all pics of me and her.

the thing is she has alot of my family and friends on FB who are gonna see this and think i'm the bad guy here, what do I do about this?
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Ignore the tantrum.



Or post your own update: Finally got hired by the sanitation dept.
 
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Put her in the garbage, where she belongs.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about"
-Oscar Wilde

Fvck it. Don't worry about it. Be amused by it.

Rise above it. What to do if people ask you "what happened?" etc

Say..."you know, we had our differences but we weren't compatible. She's a cool girl. But we ain't suited, that's the way it goes"

As for why she's bad mouthing you...."I guess that's her way of dealing with things. We all grieve differently"

You show indifference and class (by refusing to react and refusing to ((waste energy on)) bad mouthing her...

She's the one showing low class by bad mouthing you and anyone with any self awareness will see right through that
 
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My ex is going ape **** on me atm, tons of threats, cussing, chit talking, turning everyone against me etc..

Just sit back and enjoy the **** show.
There's no such thing as bad publicity.
That's the damn truth.

Naturals iv known have had the worst enemies that wanted them dead, and also had the most loyal friends/chicks to bang..


Dude serously pat yourself on the back, if she's hot and all her friends see how much of an ******* you are they're gonna wanna bang ya to. Just have to have a solid frame and zero reactiveness to that noise.
 
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