"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex-GF swearing off sex

Pakwah

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Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
She tells me that she has sworn off sex now and will not have it again till she is married.
She was with over 10 guys, she is 22, so i dunno if she finally wants to not think of herself as a 'slut' or not. But its a double edge over here cuz it makes me want to try harder to get her into the sack and bust that bubble.
I am not the only person she has told this too but i don't understand how one minute you don't want sex, next minute your married and you do. Hell with the way divorces are now, being married don't mean **** when it comes to sleeping with one person for the rest of your life.
It seemed to me their was that sexual tension with us, arguing and touching and grabbing each other, so i figured it was just a matter of time. Well the closest thing i got...well closest thing she got was an hour with my tongue....after that she left me hanging, and not literally as i would have liked.
WTF?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJinTraining06

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Pakwah said:
Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
She tells me that she has sworn off sex now and will not have it again till she is married.
She was with over 10 guys, she is 22, so i dunno if she finally wants to not think of herself as a 'slut' or not. But its a double edge over here cuz it makes me want to try harder to get her into the sack and bust that bubble.
I am not the only person she has told this too but i don't understand how one minute you don't want sex, next minute your married and you do. Hell with the way divorces are now, being married don't mean **** when it comes to sleeping with one person for the rest of your life.
It seemed to me their was that sexual tension with us, arguing and touching and grabbing each other, so i figured it was just a matter of time. Well the closest thing i got...well closest thing she got was an hour with my tongue....after that she left me hanging, and not literally as i would have liked.
WTF?
My ex gf told me that too. I highly doubt it. I'm sure she's already done it. She was a virgin tho so i dunno ur girl may be a diff story.
 

mrRuckus

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Pakwah said:
Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
WTF?
WTF indeed.
 

resilient

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If I were you, I'd start fresh with some new #closes. Ex drama is easy to forget and highly beneficial when you're out meeting new faces.
 

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don't hang around waiting for sex as if it's a gift to you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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