"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ex-GF swearing off sex

Pakwah

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Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
She tells me that she has sworn off sex now and will not have it again till she is married.
She was with over 10 guys, she is 22, so i dunno if she finally wants to not think of herself as a 'slut' or not. But its a double edge over here cuz it makes me want to try harder to get her into the sack and bust that bubble.
I am not the only person she has told this too but i don't understand how one minute you don't want sex, next minute your married and you do. Hell with the way divorces are now, being married don't mean **** when it comes to sleeping with one person for the rest of your life.
It seemed to me their was that sexual tension with us, arguing and touching and grabbing each other, so i figured it was just a matter of time. Well the closest thing i got...well closest thing she got was an hour with my tongue....after that she left me hanging, and not literally as i would have liked.
WTF?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJinTraining06

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Pakwah said:
Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
She tells me that she has sworn off sex now and will not have it again till she is married.
She was with over 10 guys, she is 22, so i dunno if she finally wants to not think of herself as a 'slut' or not. But its a double edge over here cuz it makes me want to try harder to get her into the sack and bust that bubble.
I am not the only person she has told this too but i don't understand how one minute you don't want sex, next minute your married and you do. Hell with the way divorces are now, being married don't mean **** when it comes to sleeping with one person for the rest of your life.
It seemed to me their was that sexual tension with us, arguing and touching and grabbing each other, so i figured it was just a matter of time. Well the closest thing i got...well closest thing she got was an hour with my tongue....after that she left me hanging, and not literally as i would have liked.
WTF?
My ex gf told me that too. I highly doubt it. I'm sure she's already done it. She was a virgin tho so i dunno ur girl may be a diff story.
 

mrRuckus

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Pakwah said:
Been broken up with my ex for a month or so. I wanted to get one more romp with her afterwards, sort of let the frustration out.
WTF?
WTF indeed.
 

resilient

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If I were you, I'd start fresh with some new #closes. Ex drama is easy to forget and highly beneficial when you're out meeting new faces.
 

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don't hang around waiting for sex as if it's a gift to you
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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