"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ex gets pissed off....

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so anyways me and her split up about 6 months ago after dating for 2.5 years... she now has a new BF but still got pissed off over some pictures of me and other girls on facebook....

what the ****? is it normal for girls to act this way??? i mean me and her left things on good terms, and still chill from time to time... but she moved on.. why does she expect me not to?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sav said:
so anyways me and her split up about 6 months ago after dating for 2.5 years... she now has a new BF but still got pissed off over some pictures of me and other girls on facebook....

what the ****? is it normal for girls to act this way??? i mean me and her left things on good terms, and still chill from time to time... but she moved on.. why does she expect me not to?
And you are concerned about this because?????
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
And you are concerned about this because?????
because i try to understand women and their behavior the best i can... other then that, im not really concerned ;)
 

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You let her think she has a leash on you. She still does and to watch you move on puts a kink in that leash and it bugs the fvck out of her.

Don't give your power away. Let this be a lesson brother.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is standard women behaviour. Although she's dumped you and moved on, women always want to keep their options open in case their current mans turns AFC, she wants to jump to the next branch.

Women aren't good at bein alone and like to hedge their bets. Your best bet is to ignore her and not feed the fire, tell her she's lost out, too bad, suck it up.
 

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sav said:
because i try to understand women and their behavior the best i can... other then that, im not really concerned ;)
I'd focus on understanding the ones who choose not to carry along the unresolved baggage of prior relationships. I think those are the ones you'd rather pursue. ;)
 

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my ex is the same way, once we broke up, she goes back and forth between friend and psycho. females are more emotional, so whatever

on that note, if you're gonna be friends with your ex, expect to be in the twilight zone from time to time
 

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Yeah you interrupt her control of her universe she had you positioned just where she wanted you and how she wanted you placed and then she had to totally reorganize her skillful deceptions.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
You let her think she has a leash on you. She still does and to watch you move on puts a kink in that leash and it bugs the fvck out of her.

Don't give your power away. Let this be a lesson brother.
amen , she is not your girlfriend anymore, don't let her have the power of being a girlfriend anymore.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'd focus on understanding the ones who choose not to carry along the unresolved baggage of prior relationships. I think those are the ones you'd rather pursue. ;)
amen ! listen to francisco .
 

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She's not pissed, she's frustrated. So don't confuse the two. Infact, don't even listen to it she's now an AFC. AFB?
 

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who cares if she is pissed or if she is frustrated?
let her stew in it, she moved on, and you need to move on.
 
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