"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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so anyways me and her split up about 6 months ago after dating for 2.5 years... she now has a new BF but still got pissed off over some pictures of me and other girls on facebook....

what the ****? is it normal for girls to act this way??? i mean me and her left things on good terms, and still chill from time to time... but she moved on.. why does she expect me not to?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sav said:
so anyways me and her split up about 6 months ago after dating for 2.5 years... she now has a new BF but still got pissed off over some pictures of me and other girls on facebook....

what the ****? is it normal for girls to act this way??? i mean me and her left things on good terms, and still chill from time to time... but she moved on.. why does she expect me not to?
And you are concerned about this because?????
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
And you are concerned about this because?????
because i try to understand women and their behavior the best i can... other then that, im not really concerned ;)
 

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You let her think she has a leash on you. She still does and to watch you move on puts a kink in that leash and it bugs the fvck out of her.

Don't give your power away. Let this be a lesson brother.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is standard women behaviour. Although she's dumped you and moved on, women always want to keep their options open in case their current mans turns AFC, she wants to jump to the next branch.

Women aren't good at bein alone and like to hedge their bets. Your best bet is to ignore her and not feed the fire, tell her she's lost out, too bad, suck it up.
 

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sav said:
because i try to understand women and their behavior the best i can... other then that, im not really concerned ;)
I'd focus on understanding the ones who choose not to carry along the unresolved baggage of prior relationships. I think those are the ones you'd rather pursue. ;)
 

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my ex is the same way, once we broke up, she goes back and forth between friend and psycho. females are more emotional, so whatever

on that note, if you're gonna be friends with your ex, expect to be in the twilight zone from time to time
 

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Yeah you interrupt her control of her universe she had you positioned just where she wanted you and how she wanted you placed and then she had to totally reorganize her skillful deceptions.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
You let her think she has a leash on you. She still does and to watch you move on puts a kink in that leash and it bugs the fvck out of her.

Don't give your power away. Let this be a lesson brother.
amen , she is not your girlfriend anymore, don't let her have the power of being a girlfriend anymore.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'd focus on understanding the ones who choose not to carry along the unresolved baggage of prior relationships. I think those are the ones you'd rather pursue. ;)
amen ! listen to francisco .
 

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She's not pissed, she's frustrated. So don't confuse the two. Infact, don't even listen to it she's now an AFC. AFB?
 

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who cares if she is pissed or if she is frustrated?
let her stew in it, she moved on, and you need to move on.
 
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