"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex Causing Grief, Need Advice

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Electraglide

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Dude all the replies you've gotten are right on target. I've done the SM thing too many times and it's nothing but b.s. and drama. You've got to move on and forget this chick. She will call you, count on that. But don't let her get to you. Be cool when you do talk, because you will. Don't put up with the sh!t tests. Don't burn the bridge either. Because there will probably be a booty call or two left in her and then just hit it and quit it. SM's are messed up especially when the ex has moved on with another women and she's still reeling from the break-up. Remember the ex left for a reason. HER!
 

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Desdinova said:
Red flag #1



Red flag #2

She's a depressed SM is all you need to know that this woman is going to cause you nothing but trouble, frustration, and unhappiness. You are NOT her knight in shining armour, and there is nothing you can do to save her from her depression, her ex, and any other problems that are festering in her life. Getting involved with this woman will only cause you to drown in the problems she creates for herself, and the both of you.

Leave this girl for the flower-giving, poetry-writing, money-spending, desperate AFCs. You can get a better woman, an emotionally-healthy woman who doesn't have a bastard child.


Spot on!! This chick has trouble written all over her.





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Hitman10000

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wayword said:
GOES WITH THE TERRITORY. The baby daddy will ALWAYS be in the back of her mind, especially when she has a living reminder of him in her face every frickin' minute.

Just one of the reasons I stopped dating MILFs...
I concur. Dated a Single mom myself once, never again.

Pros: They don't mind if you're ugly, all they want to know is if you have a great job making lots of money for her to spend.
Cons: They would prefer you don't have much of a life so that you can take care of her 2-3 kids of some dead beat dude.
 
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