Ex Causing Grief, Need Advice

[white sox bill]

Nothing. No Chats. No Drama. No Emotional Sh!t. Just do nothing.

You beat me to it...just ignore her. She won't know what to think.

 

[Electraglide]

Dude all the replies you've gotten are right on target. I've done the SM thing too many times and it's nothing but b.s. and drama. You've got to move on and forget this chick. She will call you, count on that. But don't let her get to you. Be cool when you do talk, because you will. Don't put up with the sh!t tests. Don't burn the bridge either. Because there will probably be a booty call or two left in her and then just hit it and quit it. SM's are messed up especially when the ex has moved on with another women and she's still reeling from the break-up. Remember the ex left for a reason. HER!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Red flag #1



Red flag #2

She's a depressed SM is all you need to know that this woman is going to cause you nothing but trouble, frustration, and unhappiness. You are NOT her knight in shining armour, and there is nothing you can do to save her from her depression, her ex, and any other problems that are festering in her life. Getting involved with this woman will only cause you to drown in the problems she creates for herself, and the both of you.

Leave this girl for the flower-giving, poetry-writing, money-spending, desperate AFCs. You can get a better woman, an emotionally-healthy woman who doesn't have a bastard child.

Spot on!! This chick has trouble written all over her.





PIMP

 

[Hitman10000]

GOES WITH THE TERRITORY. The baby daddy will ALWAYS be in the back of her mind, especially when she has a living reminder of him in her face every frickin' minute.

Just one of the reasons I stopped dating MILFs...

I concur. Dated a Single mom myself once, never again.

Pros: They don't mind if you're ugly, all they want to know is if you have a great job making lots of money for her to spend.
Cons: They would prefer you don't have much of a life so that you can take care of her 2-3 kids of some dead beat dude.