Ex BPD just invited me to her work...

[dk1990S111]

After probably 6 months of no contact with my ex (we were together for 4 years) she just texted me to invite me to the dealership she works at because one of the hosts from a show I watch will be there apparently.

Havent responded yet, was thinking:

A. Who is this?

B. Go and show her that I have been hitting the gym (been getting a lot of compliments lately so she will definitely notice) and dressing a lot better.

C. Just say "thanks Ill see if I can make it" and leave it at that.

Now keep in mind she owes me $500. I doubt I will ever get it back and I am not too worried about it. But something to think about, if theres a chance she will pay me back some day I would not say no to $500 lol

 

[jimmy18]

D. No response

 

[Albatross953]

D. No response

Co-signed

 

[fuko2007]

let a sleeping do lay. aka D.

 

[El Payaso]

She's baiting you. Ignore.

 

[Infinity.]

E. Where's My Money B!tch?

 

[Alvafe]

and ignore is the best you can do

also make a mental note of not lending that much money again next time

 

[SmooveMooves]

E. Co signed. Ignore whatever invite she gave you and tell her she still owes you 500$

She still owes 500$

Fųck an invite, let's talk about the 500$.

Chick who owes you 500$: Would you like to come to my work for a party?

You: You owe 500$, you know when you'll pay it back?

 

[Cremasta]

If not seeing her ever again is going to cost you $500, then it's probably the best $500 you ever spent!

 

[dk1990S111]

If not seeing her ever again is going to cost you $500, then it's probably the best $500 you ever spent!

that is the way I have been looking at it haha especially after reading a lot of the stories on here where guys loose a lot more than that to ex wives and gfs.

 

[mangotot]

D. No response

The right answer.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

She's baiting you dude seriously! No ex is gonna keep your number that long after no contact. Don't do it lol. My ex is bpd also. She disappeared on me after two year relationship and took our baby. Yet she stalks ME.

 

[mikey2012]

dont waste time thinking about her.

 

[Lostinlove]

After probably 6 months of no contact with my ex (we were together for 4 years) she just texted me to invite me to the dealership she works at because one of the hosts from a show I watch will be there apparently.

Havent responded yet, was thinking:

A. Who is this?

B. Go and show her that I have been hitting the gym (been getting a lot of compliments lately so she will definitely notice) and dressing a lot better.

C. Just say "thanks Ill see if I can make it" and leave it at that.

Now keep in mind she owes me $500. I doubt I will ever get it back and I am not too worried about it. But something to think about, if theres a chance she will pay me back some day I would not say no to $500 lol

Don't go. If she's BPD she's prolly banging the host from the show and half the dealership and wants to embarrass you on national tv.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Don't go. If she's BPD she's prolly banging the host from the show and half the dealership and wants to embarrass you on national tv.

Lmao!

 

[redbaron5]

Don't go. If she's BPD she's prolly banging the host from the show and half the dealership and wants to embarrass you on national tv.

This is not funny, because it is stunningly accurate. BPD gets thrown around alot on this forum, but if your ex truly has borderline personality disorder, you need to stay away from her as if your life depends on it, because it does. Nothing is more insidious and cruel than someone who is an expert at destroying your mental health.

 

[Mrgoodguy301]

Mine was truly bpd, she ran off went silent and took our baby. Five months so far and I have no clue where she is. They are pure evil.