"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ex asking if i have a girlfriend????

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ite i split with my ex last year and dont speak with her at all apart from maybe a hello on msn every month or so

now a few times ive noticed she logged onto her friends account and acted as though she was her friend and has asked my numerous times if i have a girlfriend......i know its her because

1. i dont speak wiv her friends and they dont speak with me
2. her friends wud never ask me if i had a girlfriend and
3. i can tell by the way she speaks that its her ( i dunno ppl have different styles of spkin online and i always pick up on them)


so why do think she is asking it and why do u think she wont ask me herself????

thanks guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok what i was thinking is that she isnt over me?????


c'mon guys u know this **** i don't:p
 

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If you know it's HER then have some fun with it!

YES!!!! You have a new girlfriend! She's SOOOO much hotter than your OLD girlfriend! She's better in bed! Her family has more money! She's smarter! Volunteers at the animal shelter AND helps under privilged children!

Anything! You're a clever guy, you can think of something! Drive her nuts!
 

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I have the same question as you do. My ex was doing the same thing.
 

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You have 2 options:

a) Just run away from the question. Dont answer it, make her wonder if you have or you dont, this will drive her nuts.

b) Tell her you do, and that she's sooooo great, you're loving it, she's hot, dont compare her directly with your ex cause you should never mention past women, but maker her know that its a better and improved model.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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