"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex asking if i have a girlfriend????

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ite i split with my ex last year and dont speak with her at all apart from maybe a hello on msn every month or so

now a few times ive noticed she logged onto her friends account and acted as though she was her friend and has asked my numerous times if i have a girlfriend......i know its her because

1. i dont speak wiv her friends and they dont speak with me
2. her friends wud never ask me if i had a girlfriend and
3. i can tell by the way she speaks that its her ( i dunno ppl have different styles of spkin online and i always pick up on them)


so why do think she is asking it and why do u think she wont ask me herself????

thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok what i was thinking is that she isnt over me?????


c'mon guys u know this **** i don't:p
 

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If you know it's HER then have some fun with it!

YES!!!! You have a new girlfriend! She's SOOOO much hotter than your OLD girlfriend! She's better in bed! Her family has more money! She's smarter! Volunteers at the animal shelter AND helps under privilged children!

Anything! You're a clever guy, you can think of something! Drive her nuts!
 

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I have the same question as you do. My ex was doing the same thing.
 

Trance

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You have 2 options:

a) Just run away from the question. Dont answer it, make her wonder if you have or you dont, this will drive her nuts.

b) Tell her you do, and that she's sooooo great, you're loving it, she's hot, dont compare her directly with your ex cause you should never mention past women, but maker her know that its a better and improved model.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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