"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ex-affair has contacted me after years. How to proceed?

Draper

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I guess you are dating prudes then.

90% of the women I have dated love it. They may be a bit reluctant/insecure at the start, but after a few minutes they are pulling my head in hard. Next time I see them they are anxious to get going on their tongue-lashing
I din't mean that girls don't like a good pvssy licking. I said most PREFER to get fvcked hard.
Most women like to be dominated. Doesn't mean they don't enjoy some oral sex now and then.
It's the same for guys really. Getting a BJ is nice but who wouldn't prefer to bang a tight pvssy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrrippey

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Something similar happened to me. Had an affair for a couple of years. She was married, got divorced while we were hooked up (I told her not to). Anyway while I was away, she hooked up with her ex and got pregnant. Fast forward 2.5 years, she had hit me up wanting to connect. We connected and smashed once (8 months ago), like old times frankly.

Go with the flow. If she wants you (in any capacity) she will show her hand.
 

bat soup

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Start banging her again and be careful that the husband doesn't find out, unless you want to wake up to the barrel of a shotgun.
 

Draper

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Start banging her again and be careful that the husband doesn't find out, unless you want to wake up to the barrel of a shotgun.
I live in a civilized country. No shotguns here. Besides I already said that the husband is a wuss. He was told about her affair and his only reaction was that she and I should make up our minds where we want to go with this.
 
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