"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ex-affair has contacted me after years. How to proceed?

Draper

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I guess you are dating prudes then.

90% of the women I have dated love it. They may be a bit reluctant/insecure at the start, but after a few minutes they are pulling my head in hard. Next time I see them they are anxious to get going on their tongue-lashing
I din't mean that girls don't like a good pvssy licking. I said most PREFER to get fvcked hard.
Most women like to be dominated. Doesn't mean they don't enjoy some oral sex now and then.
It's the same for guys really. Getting a BJ is nice but who wouldn't prefer to bang a tight pvssy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mrrippey

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Something similar happened to me. Had an affair for a couple of years. She was married, got divorced while we were hooked up (I told her not to). Anyway while I was away, she hooked up with her ex and got pregnant. Fast forward 2.5 years, she had hit me up wanting to connect. We connected and smashed once (8 months ago), like old times frankly.

Go with the flow. If she wants you (in any capacity) she will show her hand.
 

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Start banging her again and be careful that the husband doesn't find out, unless you want to wake up to the barrel of a shotgun.
 

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Start banging her again and be careful that the husband doesn't find out, unless you want to wake up to the barrel of a shotgun.
I live in a civilized country. No shotguns here. Besides I already said that the husband is a wuss. He was told about her affair and his only reaction was that she and I should make up our minds where we want to go with this.
 
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