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Ex-affair has contacted me after years. How to proceed?

Mauser96

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I guess you are dating prudes then.

90% of the women I have dated love it. They may be a bit reluctant/insecure at the start, but after a few minutes they are pulling my head in hard. Next time I see them they are anxious to get going on their tongue-lashing
 

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I guess you are dating prudes then.

90% of the women I have dated love it. They may be a bit reluctant/insecure at the start, but after a few minutes they are pulling my head in hard. Next time I see them they are anxious to get going on their tongue-lashing
I din't mean that girls don't like a good pvssy licking. I said most PREFER to get fvcked hard.
Most women like to be dominated. Doesn't mean they don't enjoy some oral sex now and then.
It's the same for guys really. Getting a BJ is nice but who wouldn't prefer to bang a tight pvssy?
 

mrrippey

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Something similar happened to me. Had an affair for a couple of years. She was married, got divorced while we were hooked up (I told her not to). Anyway while I was away, she hooked up with her ex and got pregnant. Fast forward 2.5 years, she had hit me up wanting to connect. We connected and smashed once (8 months ago), like old times frankly.

Go with the flow. If she wants you (in any capacity) she will show her hand.
 

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Start banging her again and be careful that the husband doesn't find out, unless you want to wake up to the barrel of a shotgun.
I live in a civilized country. No shotguns here. Besides I already said that the husband is a wuss. He was told about her affair and his only reaction was that she and I should make up our minds where we want to go with this.
 

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Apparently after you she wanted to make her marriage work. But it just got too boring again. Her dualistic sexual biology got the best of her again. Unless of course she ran out of interesting guys to service her and she thought of you.

You didn’t really handle it right. Of course she is manipulating you. Lol
The worst thing you can do is think she hasn’t had better or more interesting. She wants to set the frame and context. Lol

Tell her if you feel like taking it there that she has some sucking sessions to make up to you. You are treating her way too good. She’s a slvt and she knows it. She’s made to swallow.
 
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