"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi

I have a whatsapp group with all my friends, including my ex since she's a part of that group.

Today I posted something there of something fun that happened to me today. My friends responded but she was very fast to say something completely of topic that was in fact of no interest to anyone. Ok in a sense it's of no interest to anyone what happened to me todya but anyway...

I'm not looking to get back with her, I just want to know if she posted it because she was annoyed or whatever?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She read about you having a good time with your life post split and she probably wanted to show everyone in the group she had a life too. You will never really know the reason why though.
 
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Take the attention away from you and onto her. It's all subconscious and she probably felt awkward like "why did I send that?" after no one really cared.

Don't overthink.
 
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I'm not looking to get back with her, I just want to know if she posted it because she was annoyed or whatever?
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Throwing in that disclaimer pretty much ensures that you'd at least consider getting back with her if what she was trying to pull on whatsapp turned out to be an indicator of interest.

If you weren't looking to get back with her at all you wouldn't even be curious about this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can say whatever your want, a break-up is 1 thing, remaining emotions are another.

The down size of splitting is that communication can become very weird, you (both) will interpret messages completely different than other people ... just because your mutual emotions that often turn into negatively ...
 
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Ex acting weird? Is that like a convict acting guilty? Or a ho acting slvtty? Or a Hillary supporter acting needy?

By definition, all exes are acting weird, namely they are your ex.
 
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She's an "X" that you still have a little feeling for or you wouldn't post here otherwise. Start spinning some plates and start living your life away from the past!
 
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RestUnknown said:
Hi

I have a whatsapp group with all my friends, including my ex since she's a part of that group.

Today I posted something there of something fun that happened to me today. My friends responded but she was very fast to say something completely of topic that was in fact of no interest to anyone. Ok in a sense it's of no interest to anyone what happened to me todya but anyway...

I'm not looking to get back with her, I just want to know if she posted it because she was annoyed or whatever?
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She is looking for attention. Just ignore her.
 
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