Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if you think that's necessary....
do it.

do it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Then dont wear deodorant and she'll start hanging 2 feet from you. If you get desperate, then put some anchovies in your pockets next time she is around you, or worse, put your hand up your......HandyAndy said:She hangs like 2 inches away from me....shes hard to avoid lol
ugly? you consider an hb6 ugly? I wonder what you're idea of an hb1 is...HandyAndy said:lol alright, shes creeping me out dude, shes uglyyy
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
True, b&w, but there is no argument as to the fact she is still ok to date. I dont think any of us would argue and say we would run away from her and call her ugly.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:haha those pics were fvckin hilarious LOL
except the 8 is arguable hotter than the 9 or 10.. I'd just give them all 8s.
btw the first pic is in black and white so it's hard to rate accurately.. you could probably give her a 6 if you wanted.
shes not cute at all IMO, we all have different opinions, so dont bash mine, ill try to find a pic of her on her myspace, put her looks aside, i just simply dont like her, as i said before, i dont care if you guys rate her a 10 in your own opinions, im just saying i dont think shes attractive at all, no biggie, idk why this is turning into some big rate scale argument...Randallpink83 said:ugly? you consider an hb6 ugly? I wonder what you're idea of an hb1 is...![]()
not saying i think a 6 is hot or anything, but they are one notch above "average" so they can't be too terrible.
.....I dont even know why I care![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.