"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ewww, she wants me.

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HandyAndy said:
lol alright, shes creeping me out dude, shes uglyyy
I know this isn't a looks thread, but you did say the above, and though we all have our opinions on looks, you cant say that a HB6 is UGLYYY! Now maybe 1-4 or so you might consider, but at 6 your above half, and a 6 is not UGLY.

Maybe you classify her as ugly cause she is annoying. Beauty and the Geek is on, and its funny, and there was this annoying as hell chick i'd never consider though she was prob a 6. She laughed all the time in the annoying way. Not for me, but that doesn't mean she was ugly.

The point being, if she is just down right annoying, then I can see that. But when you state the fact (you could have left it out) she's a HB6 and she's ugly, that's the reason why we ask. And if you had a pic, that would help.

What ever the case may be, you dont like her, and you want to get rid of her. Do what you can. Just try to ignore her as much as possible.

Good luck!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well shes ok i guess..but i dont go around and say wow shes a 6! I just rate girls
Ugly, ok, cute or hot. I really dont use the scale, that could be why you guys think my ratings are wrong.
 

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Feed her some pork
 

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from ugly to ok :p just give us a pic and let us tell you :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HandyAndy said:
shes not cute at all IMO, we all have different opinions, so dont bash mine, ill try to find a pic of her on her myspace, put her looks aside, i just simply dont like her, as i said before, i dont care if you guys rate her a 10 in your own opinions, im just saying i dont think shes attractive at all, no biggie, idk why this is turning into some big rate scale argument...
HandyAndy said:
Well shes ok i guess..but i dont go around and say wow shes a 6! I just rate girlsUgly, ok, cute or hot. I really dont use the scale, that could be why you guys think my ratings are wrong.
See now you got yourself in a bind here. She has to be one or another?

Not cute at all
She's ok...

So you changed your mind later. Is it that she is really OK, but she's just plain annoying, or you just dont like her period for other reasons.

I mean we dont all have to like cute or decent looking girls, but we usually have other reasons on top of that.

For instance I worked with a girl once who was kind of smokin hot, but she was a SKANK! I wouldn't have touched her with a 10ft pole. So for me, while she looked good, I rarely talked to her cause I didn't want anything to do with that type of woman she was. I wouldn't have thought twice about dating her, or even doinking her, for fear of what I might get. But again, she still looked good.

So maybe for you, you have something similar going on. Maybe she is fvcking annoying as hell like I said, maybe she thinks she is the coolest thing alive but isnt, and your ticked off, and you want her to go away.
 
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