Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if you think that's necessary....
do it.
do it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ewww, she wants me.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I dunno how you go rating your girls, but if she's a hb6 in my book, I'd do her after a few beers.
Also, some really experienced guy in our local lair once said to me, that some of the hottest girls he banged was from ****ing the ugliest girls he knew.
So, just to let you know.
Also, some really experienced guy in our local lair once said to me, that some of the hottest girls he banged was from ****ing the ugliest girls he knew.
So, just to let you know.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
its very possible to have no ass wat r u saying man
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Grow up for a start, no need to be a nob about it, just because she has feelings.
Fat girls always have hot friends.
Fat girls always have hot friends.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If she's REALLY a 6/10 and you really aren't that into her, then you should just have her over one night, play with that puzzy a little, and forget about it. As far as I see it, 6/10 is barely "doable" but that still means she IS doable. What can getting a little action hurt? And if she's giving you those interest signals, you should proceed. I think you're making way too big of a deal out of this.
I never said what i thought about her, where did this 6/10 stuff come from? Plus shes also getting really annoying too, she screams "ANDY!!!!!!!!!!!!! " when im walking with my friends....its like omfg leave me alone already you b!tch... walk with somebody else to class..
" when im walking with my friends....its like omfg leave me alone already you b!tch... walk with somebody else to class..If she's really a 6/10, she's probably cute enough for you to get in her pants. Just because she's not a 10 doesn't mean you can't have some fun with her. You should just get her alone and escalate things naturally with her. I can't decide if you really think she's 6/10 (doable) or if you're just being generous.
What are you keeping her around for? For sometime when you get super desperate and need some play? If you're really just uninterested in her, just let her know.
"Look, I don't want to give you the wrong impression. I just really don't see it working out between us." Easy.
I think a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking "she's doesn't have model looks, so I can't mess around with her because then people would think I'm a chump" Might as well take what's given to you. If you had a girlfriend, or girls who were 9's and 10's around you all the time, you wouldn't be obsessing over this so much.
When I was in high school, I could have messed around with a lot more 7's and 8's than I did, but I didn't because I was afraid people would make fun of me and think I didn't have any game. "Well she's not drop dead gorgeous and I can't have people thinking I have low standards" Either man up and tell her you don't have feelings for her or take advantage of what's in front of you.
What are you keeping her around for? For sometime when you get super desperate and need some play? If you're really just uninterested in her, just let her know.
"Look, I don't want to give you the wrong impression. I just really don't see it working out between us." Easy.
I think a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking "she's doesn't have model looks, so I can't mess around with her because then people would think I'm a chump" Might as well take what's given to you. If you had a girlfriend, or girls who were 9's and 10's around you all the time, you wouldn't be obsessing over this so much.
When I was in high school, I could have messed around with a lot more 7's and 8's than I did, but I didn't because I was afraid people would make fun of me and think I didn't have any game. "Well she's not drop dead gorgeous and I can't have people thinking I have low standards" Either man up and tell her you don't have feelings for her or take advantage of what's in front of you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Then dont wear deodorant and she'll start hanging 2 feet from you. If you get desperate, then put some anchovies in your pockets next time she is around you, or worse, put your hand up your......HandyAndy said:
then hang around her. She'll leave you alone after. When she asks, tell her its a fetish and you like to do that. lolOk, start with the first one, or try something else unless you need to go to extremes. Or just find a new HB.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
ugly? you consider an hb6 ugly? I wonder what you're idea of an hb1 is...HandyAndy said:
not saying i think a 6 is hot or anything, but they are one notch above "average" so they can't be too terrible.
.....I dont even know why I care
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
my scale goes:
9.5 -1% of all girls, the ones that are constantly hit on, usually are models or celebrities.
(I've only given out one 9.5 and it was to a porn model...)
8+ -9% Smoking hot for a high school girl, looks like she's experienced - About 1 out of every 10 girls.
7+ -25% Doable, good reputation, basically your average HB.
6+ -25% The average girl, most often pretty but not too sexy.
0 -40% Everyone under a 6...Commonly known as UGs.
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the .5 can be interesting, seeing how they feel so close to that 10 and want it
and I throw out so many zeros it's casual.
on my old rating system I gave a HB6 an 8.5, so I made some revisions to my rankings hahah
9.5 -1% of all girls, the ones that are constantly hit on, usually are models or celebrities.
(I've only given out one 9.5 and it was to a porn model...)
8+ -9% Smoking hot for a high school girl, looks like she's experienced - About 1 out of every 10 girls.
7+ -25% Doable, good reputation, basically your average HB.
6+ -25% The average girl, most often pretty but not too sexy.
0 -40% Everyone under a 6...Commonly known as UGs.
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the .5 can be interesting, seeing how they feel so close to that 10 and want it
and I throw out so many zeros it's casual.
on my old rating system I gave a HB6 an 8.5, so I made some revisions to my rankings
hahahWell, if this girl is a 6, and he is calling her ugly, and saying she has no ass, no rack, and wants to get away from her, there are only 2 options.
1. His scale is WAY off
2. Or his standards are WAY high.
Take a look at this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129135&highlight=scale
Lets assume your girl is a 6 you dont like, or even 6.5
Now IMO, that girl in the first photo that says she is 6.5 and 7 I think is cute and would date her based on looks. In fact I wouldn't turn her down. Now if yours that is chasing you is close to that, and you call her UGLY, you have problems.
Hopefully your scale is off. If not and you have high standards, and would call the girl in the first pic UGLY that was rated 6.5-7...GOOD LUCK!
1. His scale is WAY off
2. Or his standards are WAY high.
Take a look at this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129135&highlight=scale
Lets assume your girl is a 6 you dont like, or even 6.5
Now IMO, that girl in the first photo that says she is 6.5 and 7 I think is cute and would date her based on looks. In fact I wouldn't turn her down. Now if yours that is chasing you is close to that, and you call her UGLY, you have problems.
Hopefully your scale is off. If not and you have high standards, and would call the girl in the first pic UGLY that was rated 6.5-7...GOOD LUCK!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
haha those pics were fvckin hilarious LOL
except the 8 is arguable hotter than the 9 or 10.. I'd just give them all 8s.
btw the first pic is in black and white so it's hard to rate accurately.. you could probably give her a 6 if you wanted.
except the 8 is arguable hotter than the 9 or 10.. I'd just give them all 8s.
btw the first pic is in black and white so it's hard to rate accurately.. you could probably give her a 6 if you wanted.
True, b&w, but there is no argument as to the fact she is still ok to date. I dont think any of us would argue and say we would run away from her and call her ugly.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
So i'm waiting to hear why he calls this one at school a HB6 yet wants to run from her.
shes not cute at all IMO, we all have different opinions, so dont bash mine, ill try to find a pic of her on her myspace, put her looks aside, i just simply dont like her, as i said before, i dont care if you guys rate her a 10 in your own opinions, im just saying i dont think shes attractive at all, no biggie, idk why this is turning into some big rate scale argument...Randallpink83 said:ugly? you consider an hb6 ugly? I wonder what you're idea of an hb1 is...
not saying i think a 6 is hot or anything, but they are one notch above "average" so they can't be too terrible.
.....I dont even know why I care
aussiegoat55
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The rating scale is pedalization guys.
The best girlfriend I've ever had wasn't a total bombshell, more cute and pretty, but damn did she make up for it in personality and quality. She would cook just for me, took me out on dates, split the driving, and paid for some of the dates. I was happy, and you'll realize as you grow older (well this is a HS forum), it's not always about looks, even from a guys perspective.
I'd take a cute girl with substance and depth over a smoking hot ditzy, air head. But honestly, I'd prefer the best of both worlds, an 8 or 9 in looks and personality/integrity/depth and I think that's what all of us here really want.
The best girlfriend I've ever had wasn't a total bombshell, more cute and pretty, but damn did she make up for it in personality and quality. She would cook just for me, took me out on dates, split the driving, and paid for some of the dates. I was happy, and you'll realize as you grow older (well this is a HS forum), it's not always about looks, even from a guys perspective.
I'd take a cute girl with substance and depth over a smoking hot ditzy, air head. But honestly, I'd prefer the best of both worlds, an 8 or 9 in looks and personality/integrity/depth and I think that's what all of us here really want.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.