"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"eww"

cNfny

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whats the best reaction/come back to a girl who says "ew" after you make any sexual innuendo remark to her?

i know a girl who 70% of the time responds with that. last time i suggested she make me pancakes and bring them to me in bed, she simply said "ew" and i just walked away.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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prefer bacon and eggs?

dont put too much value on words/phrases girls say. especially something like "eww" she could just be going through a eww phase where she likes to say eww all the time, especially if it's a high school girl. you could start using it back on her if she really does say it a lot. it could also be a well calculated eww which would mean she is not interested. i guess it depends on the eww delivery, does it come with a eww face?
 

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I put a chick saying that up there with the sound of nails on a chalkboard.

Horrible.

Either hope she grows out of it or next the b!tch all depending on your tolerance level for annoying language choices.
 

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in the pancake situation, should i have said someting or was walkin away best?
 

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CNfy: You should bring me some pancakes in bed

HB: Ewww

CNfy: Your pancakes are that bad?

Keep it funny, keep it light. If I understand correctly she doesn't dislike you, she's just running her female test bullsh!t. Keep the C+F going and don't take the dumb stuff personally.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cNfny

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Your pancakes are that bad?
haha thats good. i guess i did take it too personally, think she felt that by walkin away and not responding?
 

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sometimes the best response is no response at all. it allows the girl to realize that you understand that what she's doing is just a test or some kind of game.
 
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