"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Everything might be a possibility

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This might be true. In fact, appearance means alot when it comes to starting a conversation. So everything has a chance or possibility. A percentage.

My friend has more friends who are females than me and he seems to be good friends with alot of them. He's also had several girls like him. He hasn't been taught to be good with women, but its the fact that he's he is a good socializer. He isn't as popular but still a couple of girls know him pretty well and they think he is cute. He's never 'realized' or 'knew what he learned', i guess it just happens and he's one of those guys who just doesn't care about the internet and doesn't seek for tips. However, he is not perfect.

Enough with my friend story. Anyways, as I was saying about possibility, I believe everything has a chance to things and it all depends on the situation. This is why I hate the way the life system goes. You have to have a certain tone of voice and way of speaking that must fit yourself. It's good to find advice but its not good enough if you haven't even experienced it yet.

Even though I learned alot during the past few months with my friends, I still have not improved 'realistically' with women. So what If I know alot about them, If I don't even use it and learn the mistakes? But here is my problem... After knowing my mistakes, I feel very discouraged and I lose my confidence... But for others, they do not care.. This all comes from our chemical re-actions inside out body.


This is why... everything depends and has a possibility to certain things in view.

What do you guys think...

Is life filled with so many possibilities that its almost too difficult to win over everything?


I do...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by tactic


It's good to find advice but its not good enough if you haven't even experienced it yet.

Yes...That's exactly right in every regard. It never matters how much you know, it's how much you're able to do with what you know.


Originally posted by tactic


Is life filled with so many possibilities that its almost too difficult to win over everything?
No, you cant win at everything. No one can, no one ever will. Don't look at it this way, however. Look at each possibility as a chance (not a guarentee) to succeed, and with so many possibilities and chances the only way to truly fail is to never try.
 

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Excellent response.
 
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