"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everything might be a possibility

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This might be true. In fact, appearance means alot when it comes to starting a conversation. So everything has a chance or possibility. A percentage.

My friend has more friends who are females than me and he seems to be good friends with alot of them. He's also had several girls like him. He hasn't been taught to be good with women, but its the fact that he's he is a good socializer. He isn't as popular but still a couple of girls know him pretty well and they think he is cute. He's never 'realized' or 'knew what he learned', i guess it just happens and he's one of those guys who just doesn't care about the internet and doesn't seek for tips. However, he is not perfect.

Enough with my friend story. Anyways, as I was saying about possibility, I believe everything has a chance to things and it all depends on the situation. This is why I hate the way the life system goes. You have to have a certain tone of voice and way of speaking that must fit yourself. It's good to find advice but its not good enough if you haven't even experienced it yet.

Even though I learned alot during the past few months with my friends, I still have not improved 'realistically' with women. So what If I know alot about them, If I don't even use it and learn the mistakes? But here is my problem... After knowing my mistakes, I feel very discouraged and I lose my confidence... But for others, they do not care.. This all comes from our chemical re-actions inside out body.


This is why... everything depends and has a possibility to certain things in view.

What do you guys think...

Is life filled with so many possibilities that its almost too difficult to win over everything?


I do...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by tactic


It's good to find advice but its not good enough if you haven't even experienced it yet.

Yes...That's exactly right in every regard. It never matters how much you know, it's how much you're able to do with what you know.


Originally posted by tactic


Is life filled with so many possibilities that its almost too difficult to win over everything?
No, you cant win at everything. No one can, no one ever will. Don't look at it this way, however. Look at each possibility as a chance (not a guarentee) to succeed, and with so many possibilities and chances the only way to truly fail is to never try.
 

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Excellent response.
 
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