"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Everyone wondering about me and my gf?

illmatic1005

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everytime i post a question, someone says "Here we go again, another post from illmatic about his gf, break up with her already''

well u see i cant because shes is my best friends sister. I see my best friend everyday and if i break up with her, he'll hate me forever(trust me i know) and/or it'll be awkward if i hang around my friend because she is always there..

plus she is a very pretty girl and is the type to get even. If i break up with her, she'll easily go to any of the hundreds of guys chasing her, (alot of really good looking ones too)..

she is even the type of person who would make out and touch another guys d!ck in front of me..and i aint ready for that..

so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0n024

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...I didnt even know you had a girlfriend lol...and I guess I dont care, nice to make a topic that should be in your FR.
 

tick37

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You dated your best friend's sister or you became friends with you gf's brother. Which came first?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJDamage

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illmatic1005 said:
so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
No I don't understand and I am one of those people who accused you of being a troll because you keep asking the same questions, getting the same answers and are doing squat. You are essentially wasting your time and other people's time.

Let me put this bluntly. This relationship will not go on forever. She is treating you like a doormat and any pretty girl who treats a guy like a doormat and he takes it will get dumped in the near future.

You are afraid to get hurt? I see you hurting everyday being with her. You got oneitis in the worst possible way. One day she will dump your ass and you will be thinking what a fool you were for not ending it first.
 

splinterkb

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If you want to break up with her but you're scared... you need to grow some balls. Just because she's your buddies sister doesn't really mean much. I'm sure he doesn't hang out with her all the time, and it'll only be awkward if you make it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start acting distant towards her. Then, say you just aren't feeling the same way about her. She will probably want to break up with you or you can just do it yourself. I don't think your friends will be mad at you for your loss of love for her. Or if she breaks up with you it will be on her.

Shake the broad dog she cant be trusted!
 
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