"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone wondering about me and my gf?

illmatic1005

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everytime i post a question, someone says "Here we go again, another post from illmatic about his gf, break up with her already''

well u see i cant because shes is my best friends sister. I see my best friend everyday and if i break up with her, he'll hate me forever(trust me i know) and/or it'll be awkward if i hang around my friend because she is always there..

plus she is a very pretty girl and is the type to get even. If i break up with her, she'll easily go to any of the hundreds of guys chasing her, (alot of really good looking ones too)..

she is even the type of person who would make out and touch another guys d!ck in front of me..and i aint ready for that..

so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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j0n024

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...I didnt even know you had a girlfriend lol...and I guess I dont care, nice to make a topic that should be in your FR.
 

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You dated your best friend's sister or you became friends with you gf's brother. Which came first?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJDamage

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illmatic1005 said:
so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
No I don't understand and I am one of those people who accused you of being a troll because you keep asking the same questions, getting the same answers and are doing squat. You are essentially wasting your time and other people's time.

Let me put this bluntly. This relationship will not go on forever. She is treating you like a doormat and any pretty girl who treats a guy like a doormat and he takes it will get dumped in the near future.

You are afraid to get hurt? I see you hurting everyday being with her. You got oneitis in the worst possible way. One day she will dump your ass and you will be thinking what a fool you were for not ending it first.
 

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If you want to break up with her but you're scared... you need to grow some balls. Just because she's your buddies sister doesn't really mean much. I'm sure he doesn't hang out with her all the time, and it'll only be awkward if you make it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start acting distant towards her. Then, say you just aren't feeling the same way about her. She will probably want to break up with you or you can just do it yourself. I don't think your friends will be mad at you for your loss of love for her. Or if she breaks up with you it will be on her.

Shake the broad dog she cant be trusted!
 
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