"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everyone wondering about me and my gf?

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illmatic1005

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everytime i post a question, someone says "Here we go again, another post from illmatic about his gf, break up with her already''

well u see i cant because shes is my best friends sister. I see my best friend everyday and if i break up with her, he'll hate me forever(trust me i know) and/or it'll be awkward if i hang around my friend because she is always there..

plus she is a very pretty girl and is the type to get even. If i break up with her, she'll easily go to any of the hundreds of guys chasing her, (alot of really good looking ones too)..

she is even the type of person who would make out and touch another guys d!ck in front of me..and i aint ready for that..

so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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...I didnt even know you had a girlfriend lol...and I guess I dont care, nice to make a topic that should be in your FR.
 
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You dated your best friend's sister or you became friends with you gf's brother. Which came first?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJDamage

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illmatic1005 said:
so, you see, i cant break up with her, cause ill get hurt

Now do u guys understand?
I jus wanna look for ways to make it work.
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No I don't understand and I am one of those people who accused you of being a troll because you keep asking the same questions, getting the same answers and are doing squat. You are essentially wasting your time and other people's time.

Let me put this bluntly. This relationship will not go on forever. She is treating you like a doormat and any pretty girl who treats a guy like a doormat and he takes it will get dumped in the near future.

You are afraid to get hurt? I see you hurting everyday being with her. You got oneitis in the worst possible way. One day she will dump your ass and you will be thinking what a fool you were for not ending it first.
 
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If you want to break up with her but you're scared... you need to grow some balls. Just because she's your buddies sister doesn't really mean much. I'm sure he doesn't hang out with her all the time, and it'll only be awkward if you make it.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start acting distant towards her. Then, say you just aren't feeling the same way about her. She will probably want to break up with you or you can just do it yourself. I don't think your friends will be mad at you for your loss of love for her. Or if she breaks up with you it will be on her.

Shake the broad dog she cant be trusted!
 
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