"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every man worth his salt needs to watch this

FlexpertHamilton

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If you don't wanna watch the whole thing the best parts are around the 1hr 50m mark to the end but the whole episode is just gold. This is from 2007. 16 years before dating talk podcasts were remotely a thing, and when the red pill was still in it's infancy and completely underground. Patrice O'Neal is a literal sage, he drops so much wisdom in here it's worth several rewatches.



Here's a short clip from one his rants that might give you an idea how ahead of his time he was, if you're still not convinced:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pretty interesting listen. Hadnt heard of him
 
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