"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Every man worth his salt needs to watch this

FlexpertHamilton

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If you don't wanna watch the whole thing the best parts are around the 1hr 50m mark to the end but the whole episode is just gold. This is from 2007. 16 years before dating talk podcasts were remotely a thing, and when the red pill was still in it's infancy and completely underground. Patrice O'Neal is a literal sage, he drops so much wisdom in here it's worth several rewatches.



Here's a short clip from one his rants that might give you an idea how ahead of his time he was, if you're still not convinced:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pretty interesting listen. Hadnt heard of him
 
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