"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Every man worth his salt needs to watch this

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If you don't wanna watch the whole thing the best parts are around the 1hr 50m mark to the end but the whole episode is just gold. This is from 2007. 16 years before dating talk podcasts were remotely a thing, and when the red pill was still in it's infancy and completely underground. Patrice O'Neal is a literal sage, he drops so much wisdom in here it's worth several rewatches.



Here's a short clip from one his rants that might give you an idea how ahead of his time he was, if you're still not convinced:
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pretty interesting listen. Hadnt heard of him
 
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