"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Every good wingman needs this advice.

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"I have learned to love that which is meant to harm me, so that I can stand in the way of those who are less strong. I can take the bullets for those who aren't able to."

Meaning. Learn how to get the attention off your friend when something bad is happening. If it's for your friend don't worry if you make an ass of yourself. What're the chances your going to find one of these women again eh?

So get the attention of the jerky/jealous/****blocking men and women so your friend doesn't need to compete to get his girls attention. That is all. :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whenever I explain wingmen to my non community friends, I always tell them the football analogy.

The guy who opens is the QB, and the rest (the wingmen and women) block for him for as long as you possibly can until he can get the pass(i.e. close, venue change, ID, whatever) off.

Usually, with just that mindset, we succeed.
 
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You know that's a pretty good way to look at it. Hmmm... The new goal of this post is to collect all the best wingman analogy's ever!
 
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For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
 
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DJ in Progress said:
For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
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being a hunter myself, this is comic_relief approved. Good analogy.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey that is pretty cool. Come on now. That is three. Lets get some more. : D
 
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