"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every good wingman needs this advice.

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"I have learned to love that which is meant to harm me, so that I can stand in the way of those who are less strong. I can take the bullets for those who aren't able to."

Meaning. Learn how to get the attention off your friend when something bad is happening. If it's for your friend don't worry if you make an ass of yourself. What're the chances your going to find one of these women again eh?

So get the attention of the jerky/jealous/****blocking men and women so your friend doesn't need to compete to get his girls attention. That is all. :rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whenever I explain wingmen to my non community friends, I always tell them the football analogy.

The guy who opens is the QB, and the rest (the wingmen and women) block for him for as long as you possibly can until he can get the pass(i.e. close, venue change, ID, whatever) off.

Usually, with just that mindset, we succeed.
 
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You know that's a pretty good way to look at it. Hmmm... The new goal of this post is to collect all the best wingman analogy's ever!
 
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For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
 
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DJ in Progress said:
For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
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being a hunter myself, this is comic_relief approved. Good analogy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey that is pretty cool. Come on now. That is three. Lets get some more. : D
 
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