"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Every good wingman needs this advice.

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"I have learned to love that which is meant to harm me, so that I can stand in the way of those who are less strong. I can take the bullets for those who aren't able to."

Meaning. Learn how to get the attention off your friend when something bad is happening. If it's for your friend don't worry if you make an ass of yourself. What're the chances your going to find one of these women again eh?

So get the attention of the jerky/jealous/****blocking men and women so your friend doesn't need to compete to get his girls attention. That is all. :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whenever I explain wingmen to my non community friends, I always tell them the football analogy.

The guy who opens is the QB, and the rest (the wingmen and women) block for him for as long as you possibly can until he can get the pass(i.e. close, venue change, ID, whatever) off.

Usually, with just that mindset, we succeed.
 

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You know that's a pretty good way to look at it. Hmmm... The new goal of this post is to collect all the best wingman analogy's ever!
 

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For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
 

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DJ in Progress said:
For all the hunters out there. its the guy sitting in the tree stand waiting for a shot at the deer. All the while a few of his buddies are pushing the deer towards him, esentially cutting off any means of escape
being a hunter myself, this is comic_relief approved. Good analogy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey that is pretty cool. Come on now. That is three. Lets get some more. : D
 
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