"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ever taken an Ex back ?

Will/Have you taken such action ?

  • Yes I broke up with them previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Yes she broke up with me previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • We got married

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not worth the hassle

    Votes: 9 60.0%
  • Total voters
    15
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Yorkex

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Under what circumstances and how did it play out ?

1) You broke up with them

2) She broke up with you

3) Mutual agreement
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BigSteve28

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8 Year relationship out of high school. Broke up with her because she wouldn't grow up and acted the same as when we first met. Got back together a week later, lasted 3 days. Same ****, broke up again, moved to a new town, restarted life.
 
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way2smart

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I have been in both sutuations. First time i was dumped, then took her back and was dumped again. The second time with another girl, i dumped her, then took her back, then dumped her again.

In any case, taking an ex back is a huge waste of your life!
 
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jurry

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Haha walking away is always hard to do..

Im supposed to see ex thurs really not sure what my motive is, could get messy lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dhoulmagus

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Both

I broke up with her, but failed trying to get her back. I would never stick my penis in that again because no telling what's been in it.
 
logicallefty

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Dated a woman in HS in 1991 when I was 17, she was 18. I dumped her then to be with a different woman. We got back together in 2012 when she was 39, I was 38, after chatting on FB and meeting at a bar with people we both knew. The 2012 rodeo lasted 2.5 years but I ended up dumping her the second time in September 2014. As time went she did the usual: really crazy, BPD, sociopathic, untrustworthy, etc, etc, etc. She didn't cheat that I know if but she did everything else bad that women do x10.

My answer: Not worth the hassle!
 
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