"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ever taken an Ex back ?

Will/Have you taken such action ?

  • Yes I broke up with them previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Yes she broke up with me previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • We got married

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not worth the hassle

    Votes: 9 60.0%
  • Total voters
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Yorkex

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Under what circumstances and how did it play out ?

1) You broke up with them

2) She broke up with you

3) Mutual agreement
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BigSteve28

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8 Year relationship out of high school. Broke up with her because she wouldn't grow up and acted the same as when we first met. Got back together a week later, lasted 3 days. Same ****, broke up again, moved to a new town, restarted life.
 
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way2smart

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I have been in both sutuations. First time i was dumped, then took her back and was dumped again. The second time with another girl, i dumped her, then took her back, then dumped her again.

In any case, taking an ex back is a huge waste of your life!
 
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jurry

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Haha walking away is always hard to do..

Im supposed to see ex thurs really not sure what my motive is, could get messy lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I broke up with her, but failed trying to get her back. I would never stick my penis in that again because no telling what's been in it.
 
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Dated a woman in HS in 1991 when I was 17, she was 18. I dumped her then to be with a different woman. We got back together in 2012 when she was 39, I was 38, after chatting on FB and meeting at a bar with people we both knew. The 2012 rodeo lasted 2.5 years but I ended up dumping her the second time in September 2014. As time went she did the usual: really crazy, BPD, sociopathic, untrustworthy, etc, etc, etc. She didn't cheat that I know if but she did everything else bad that women do x10.

My answer: Not worth the hassle!
 
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