"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ever taken an Ex back ?

Will/Have you taken such action ?

  • Yes I broke up with them previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Yes she broke up with me previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • We got married

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not worth the hassle

    Votes: 9 60.0%
  • Total voters
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Yorkex

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Under what circumstances and how did it play out ?

1) You broke up with them

2) She broke up with you

3) Mutual agreement
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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8 Year relationship out of high school. Broke up with her because she wouldn't grow up and acted the same as when we first met. Got back together a week later, lasted 3 days. Same ****, broke up again, moved to a new town, restarted life.
 
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way2smart

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I have been in both sutuations. First time i was dumped, then took her back and was dumped again. The second time with another girl, i dumped her, then took her back, then dumped her again.

In any case, taking an ex back is a huge waste of your life!
 
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Haha walking away is always hard to do..

Im supposed to see ex thurs really not sure what my motive is, could get messy lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I broke up with her, but failed trying to get her back. I would never stick my penis in that again because no telling what's been in it.
 
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Dated a woman in HS in 1991 when I was 17, she was 18. I dumped her then to be with a different woman. We got back together in 2012 when she was 39, I was 38, after chatting on FB and meeting at a bar with people we both knew. The 2012 rodeo lasted 2.5 years but I ended up dumping her the second time in September 2014. As time went she did the usual: really crazy, BPD, sociopathic, untrustworthy, etc, etc, etc. She didn't cheat that I know if but she did everything else bad that women do x10.

My answer: Not worth the hassle!
 
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