Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ever taken an Ex back ?

Will/Have you taken such action ?

  • Yes I broke up with them previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Yes she broke up with me previously

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • We got married

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not worth the hassle

    Votes: 9 60.0%
  • Total voters
    15
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Yorkex

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Under what circumstances and how did it play out ?

1) You broke up with them

2) She broke up with you

3) Mutual agreement
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BigSteve28

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8 Year relationship out of high school. Broke up with her because she wouldn't grow up and acted the same as when we first met. Got back together a week later, lasted 3 days. Same ****, broke up again, moved to a new town, restarted life.
 
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way2smart

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I have been in both sutuations. First time i was dumped, then took her back and was dumped again. The second time with another girl, i dumped her, then took her back, then dumped her again.

In any case, taking an ex back is a huge waste of your life!
 
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jurry

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Haha walking away is always hard to do..

Im supposed to see ex thurs really not sure what my motive is, could get messy lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I broke up with her, but failed trying to get her back. I would never stick my penis in that again because no telling what's been in it.
 
logicallefty

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Dated a woman in HS in 1991 when I was 17, she was 18. I dumped her then to be with a different woman. We got back together in 2012 when she was 39, I was 38, after chatting on FB and meeting at a bar with people we both knew. The 2012 rodeo lasted 2.5 years but I ended up dumping her the second time in September 2014. As time went she did the usual: really crazy, BPD, sociopathic, untrustworthy, etc, etc, etc. She didn't cheat that I know if but she did everything else bad that women do x10.

My answer: Not worth the hassle!
 
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