"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ever made this mistake?

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so you see this girl, you think she's pretty good lookin' so you think to yourself "i'd like to meet her, i'll go talk to her". you strike up a conversation with her, she seems interested(or maybe she's not but that isn't the point of this). you casually ask a question or make a comment that will make her reveal her age("so do you go to such and such college?"). then comes the reply that gives you that weird feeling in your stomach. she says, "haha no, i'm not in college, i'm 16" or 17, 18, 19, 20....you get the point:nervous: :nervous: you could have SWORN she was 21+! that's when you makeup some excuse to get the h*ll outta there. my question is this, are younger girls looking older nowdays then they used to? i have mistaken a teenager for someone to be MUCH older more then once. when i was in highschool this wasn't the case. i'm 28 now btw. please tell me i'm not the only one who's made this mistake before. i know some girls who are like 25 and look 16! it's the dammdest thing. the ones you think are your age aren't and the one's you think are young are acctually your age if not older then you are! also, for those of you out of highschool, is it just me or are there way more quality girls for highschool guys to pick from these days? what i mean is when i was in highschool there were a few, but if i were in highschool today i would next a girl so fast because i KNOW there are TONS of girls that look just as good if not better then them. that wasn't the case in highschool for me. you had to put up with alot more crap because to be honest, what better option did you have? you weren't really going to dump that HB10 for a HB6 were you? ofcourse not.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i don't date, f*ck, or hangout with any female that can't drink alcohol. 21 is my cutoff age. it's a moral thing i guess, i dunno. i did have this really hot girl ask me to her prom the other day.lol she didn't believe i was 28, even after i showed her my i.d.
 

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If she's 18 it's fair game IMO.

And yes, I've made that mistake before. Problem was I didn't find out until AFTER. Eh.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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