so you see this girl, you think she's pretty good lookin' so you think to yourself "i'd like to meet her, i'll go talk to her". you strike up a conversation with her, she seems interested(or maybe she's not but that isn't the point of this). you casually ask a question or make a comment that will make her reveal her age("so do you go to such and such college?"). then comes the reply that gives you that weird feeling in your stomach. she says, "haha no, i'm not in college, i'm 16" or 17, 18, 19, 20....you get the point:nervous: :nervous: you could have SWORN she was 21+! that's when you makeup some excuse to get the h*ll outta there. my question is this, are younger girls looking older nowdays then they used to? i have mistaken a teenager for someone to be MUCH older more then once. when i was in highschool this wasn't the case. i'm 28 now btw. please tell me i'm not the only one who's made this mistake before. i know some girls who are like 25 and look 16! it's the dammdest thing. the ones you think are your age aren't and the one's you think are young are acctually your age if not older then you are! also, for those of you out of highschool, is it just me or are there way more quality girls for highschool guys to pick from these days? what i mean is when i was in highschool there were a few, but if i were in highschool today i would next a girl so fast because i KNOW there are TONS of girls that look just as good if not better then them. that wasn't the case in highschool for me. you had to put up with alot more crap because to be honest, what better option did you have? you weren't really going to dump that HB10 for a HB6 were you? ofcourse not.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ever made this mistake?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
if shes legal i say go for it!!
i don't date, f*ck, or hangout with any female that can't drink alcohol. 21 is my cutoff age. it's a moral thing i guess, i dunno. i did have this really hot girl ask me to her prom the other day.lol she didn't believe i was 28, even after i showed her my i.d.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.