so you see this girl, you think she's pretty good lookin' so you think to yourself "i'd like to meet her, i'll go talk to her". you strike up a conversation with her, she seems interested(or maybe she's not but that isn't the point of this). you casually ask a question or make a comment that will make her reveal her age("so do you go to such and such college?"). then comes the reply that gives you that weird feeling in your stomach. she says, "haha no, i'm not in college, i'm 16" or 17, 18, 19, 20....you get the point:nervous: :nervous: you could have SWORN she was 21+! that's when you makeup some excuse to get the h*ll outta there. my question is this, are younger girls looking older nowdays then they used to? i have mistaken a teenager for someone to be MUCH older more then once. when i was in highschool this wasn't the case. i'm 28 now btw. please tell me i'm not the only one who's made this mistake before. i know some girls who are like 25 and look 16! it's the dammdest thing. the ones you think are your age aren't and the one's you think are young are acctually your age if not older then you are! also, for those of you out of highschool, is it just me or are there way more quality girls for highschool guys to pick from these days? what i mean is when i was in highschool there were a few, but if i were in highschool today i would next a girl so fast because i KNOW there are TONS of girls that look just as good if not better then them. that wasn't the case in highschool for me. you had to put up with alot more crap because to be honest, what better option did you have? you weren't really going to dump that HB10 for a HB6 were you? ofcourse not.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ever made this mistake?
- Thread starter Robert28
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
if shes legal i say go for it!!
i don't date, f*ck, or hangout with any female that can't drink alcohol. 21 is my cutoff age. it's a moral thing i guess, i dunno. i did have this really hot girl ask me to her prom the other day.lol she didn't believe i was 28, even after i showed her my i.d.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.